Only a few short months ago I was struggling to come up with a summer schedule that would optimize fun while still continue the learning process for my kids.
Now we’re already back in school and instead of worrying about how to keep them occupied at home, I’m wondering how to keep them at home!
It’s true, not only do I have two kids in school full time now, but for the first time this year, we found activities for them both to participate in.
To be completely honest, I have mixed feelings about the activity dilemma. As a child, I was VERY involved in sports & activities…to the point where I don’t remember eating very many meals with my mom at the dinner table. She was typically shuttling me back and forth between tennis or swim practice and show choir or dance rehearsal with a tupperware container for me to eat in the backseat. On a recent road trip, we stopped at my aunt’s house and even found all my own trophies, much to the delight of my young son:
My husband, however, had a more subdued childhood when it came to extra-curricular activities, but actively remembers playing outside with cousins and friends and the like. Of course he can also recite verbatim almost every meal his mom cooked too 😉
So where is the happy medium? I’m learning I have to stop getting ahead of myself.
Through it all, I’m learning two things:
1. It’s not about me
2. Nothing is guaranteed
While this might strike fear in the minds of some parents, for me, it reminds me of God’s sovereignty and grace in each and every moment.
That’s why I love Max Lucado’s “Grace for the Moment: 365 Devotions for Kids“. It reminds my kids that grace is God’s best idea: More than we deserve … and greater than we imagine.
More importantly, it reminds me to apply the same principles to my own life and Christian walk as I read it with them!
Do you struggle with deciding what and how many activities your kids should be participating in? How do you make those decisions in your family?
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