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Why are men expected to make more sacrifices than women?
Now ladies, hear me out.
I’m not saying that men do all the work and we are worthless. After all I am a woman; I know everything that we do. But I do think sometimes we set the bar a little too high for our guys without having equal accountability for ourselves.
Case in point:
We lent friends our car the other day after their car was in a wreck. The wife drove off in their good car and the husband ended up in our old car, which got me thinking, “Why are men always expected to be the ones making the sacrifices?”
It was just assumed that the wife would get ‘the better end of the stick’, shall we say, just like we expect our guys to watch what we want to watch, eat what we want to eat and go where we like to go.
Some may call it chivalry, but if the sacrifice is always only one-sided, problems are sure to arise.
I believe a lot of relationships suffer because ultimately, we as women, and especially wives, always expect our men to “take one for the team”.
Think about it. We want our cake and we want to eat it too.
When I put it down on paper like this (or computer screen in its current version), it’s no wonder we can often be hard to figure out!
From the beginning of time, men have literally been cursed to work the land as a result of Adam’s sin. I’m not saying Eve left us ladies in any better of a situation with labor pains, but it shouldn’t diminish the role our men serve in this world.
Don’t get me wrong, I want my man to keep treating me like a princess, but I’d be a fool to think that he would wait on me hand and foot for the rest of my life without receiving any love and respect from me.
So this Valentine’s Day ladies, don’t put all the responsibility on your guy. If your relationship is 50/50, then you should be willing to put yourself out there and WOW him too!
(And don’t even get me started on celebrating valentine’s Day on days OTHER than Valentine’s Day, but I digress…)
LOVE this post and couldn’t agree more! xoxo
I totally agree with you. The best gift a wife can give her husband is respect, true and genuine respect. IMO respect can mean the difference between a good/ok marriage and a GREAT marriage! When he’s feeling respected he doesn’t mind making those sacrifices like driving the older car, etc.